Happy Holidays?

This is always an interesting time of year, and this time is no different. I've been pretty OK over the last month, though there was a moment when I was in a funny place, but that's a comment for another day. 

Someone from a FB group that I'm in sent an email to the group that said she was thinking of (those of us with IF) and sending us hugs. I know she had a really difficult time and ended up finally being successful with a donor cycle, so I know it came from a good place. And I know she didn't mean it this way, but my mind added "you poor things (to be pitied)" at the end of it. This is a sucky place to be. 

It is what it is, though; this too shall pass, I hope. 

Looking forward to the days when these holidays are really happy again.